Talk-less Relationship Coaching

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Smart, dedicated individuals and couples ready for true, deep relationship healing and willing to go for their heart's desire, come to me for caring guidance in crafting the relationship of their dreams. My Talk-less approach fills gaps I found in traditional couples therapy, which made sense, but wasn't sufficient to maintain change, truly healing and craft a deeply satisfying bond that works in practical everyday life for the relationship AND each partner individually. 

By weaving top relationship science with potent keys from mindbody energy methods I've created this signature program that guides individuals and couples in the most authentic, supported sequence I know possible from 30 years of assisting couples, and healing my own personal relationship challenges. I tell couples I work with that marriage is not for the feint of heart. If we knew the pain, frustration or disappointment we'd face in marriage when we fell in love, we may have thought twice about setting the date. This isn't because we're bad or stupid. SO much can be easier and more fun! It is my honor and pleasure to assist couples in healing and learning how. Learn easy new dance steps together so you can enjoy true intimacy that honors your individuality in a deeply satisfying harmonious relationship. So if you're ready for the journey from Disappointment Drive or Pain Island to Pleasure Paradise, reach out and let's start activating new possibilities for the love of your life!

All relationships face challenges. Learn the moves that evoke and sustain that  loving feeling for a harmonious relationship filled with trust, acceptance, fondness and appreciation. Based on 40 years of data from top relationship scientist John Gottman.

Demystify and diffuse conflict. Learn tools to to stop bickering and rehashing with common conflict patterns and why most of your couple conflict probably doesn't even belong to you. Learn powerful mindbody energy methods to clear old conflicts and effectively resolve new ones. 

Potent mindbody and trauma-informed tools to quickly shift emotions and repattern our nervous system. So you can address issues without stressing your mind out and can prevent conflict from escalating when buttons get pushed. So you can show up as your best self, And so you can allow yourself to see, feel and be seen. Ground into ultimate safety so you can shift default protective modes and Receive the Love you Want. Couples timing. 

Increase your ability to be heard, understood and accepted, and to help your partner feel the same. More peaceful, effective co-parenting. Prevent 0 to 60 escalations or reactive withdrawal. Why risking more in the right way increases safety in relationship. 

Guidance for one partner improving their relationship. Ways to begin to shift things that evoke curiosity and invite your partner closer, without pursuing or compromising yourself. Including strategies for your highest chance of bringing a partner back if they are disengaged, leaving or recently left the relationship. 

with specific tools for the one who broke trust, the traumatized partner and the couple together to process triggers, guilt, underlying dynamics to grow through this crisis

Keys for enjoying affection and sexual intimacy, renewing passion, elemental masculine and feminine energies that create that spark for giving and receiving. 

Protect your love through the storms of life and juggling obligations, including co-parenting. Create a place of respite and reinvigoration with each other. Invitations to lightness, playfulness, wonder, joy, adventure, creativity. Co-author, co-pilot, co-create your life together. 

Call in your heart's desire. I absolutely Love assisting women and men in tuning into the frequency of their heart's desire to call in your soulmate. Love, Marriage, Family elude so many smart, successful women and great guys. I was there so I know firsthand. Whether you're wanting your heart filled and brightened by calling in your soulmate or would like to draw him or her out in your current relationship, I can guide you in how. It's the same process with fertility and creating a family too!